tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133890555036844375.post956343155832180843..comments2023-03-24T00:52:47.275-07:00Comments on The Christina Chronicles: TiredChristinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14642237923817906594noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133890555036844375.post-60398120459701358122010-07-22T17:26:33.046-07:002010-07-22T17:26:33.046-07:00Your other friends have already said it but I'...Your other friends have already said it but I'll say it again and again and AGAIN! This is not your fault. I know that things have been rough going lately, but this too shall pass. Focus on the honeymoon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I love you Christina and I'm sorry I've been MIA at lunch lately. I wish I had better words of wisdom, but please know that this isn't your fault and it will pass and soon you will be on your honeymoon so poop on everything else! <br /><br />p.s. you are a brat but the point is moot!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133890555036844375.post-34460413682133632012010-07-22T16:14:17.552-07:002010-07-22T16:14:17.552-07:00The time has obviously come for you to stop protec...The time has obviously come for you to stop protecting and "babysitting" everyone's emotions. That isn't your responsibility regardless of what psychological mind fuck you've been put through by your parents. The simple and harsh reality of this entire situation is that (as an adult) you don't respect the integrity of your own parents. What was left of it went out the window when bio-mom contacted you and your whole perception of family turned upside-down. In my opinion, you have every right to feel exhausted and fed up. You have every right to feel angry and confused and to demand explanations. <br />Your parents are guilty. There, I'll say it. I think most of us are treading lightly out of respect for you and your relationship with them. They seem to know exactly how to distract you with emotion from the logical truth. If they were forced to be adult and quit throwing tantrums, all the beans might spill and that is their worst fear. <br />Christina, never compromise your own integrity or underestimate your own worth. You are a great woman with a beautiful heart and a brilliant mind. One of the hardest tasks in life is loving those you don't respect. Stand by your decisions and assert your freedom to choose what is best and right for you. You shouldn't feel guilt for being happy and anyone who wishes you to do so doesn't have your best interest at heart. <br /><br />Hang in there, stay strong, and above all be happy! xoxoxoChandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12375083998866557445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133890555036844375.post-19384182168975582592010-07-22T15:19:19.724-07:002010-07-22T15:19:19.724-07:00First of all "Dumb Teenage Indiscretion That ...First of all "Dumb Teenage Indiscretion That Never Shoulda Happened" is a terrible name for you! {{{{SLAP}}}} That's me slapping you across the face. Wake up Christina, non of this is your fault even if it totally feels like it. It's hard when such a crazy thing unravels. Something worth having is never easy to get. Now it's never in most cases going to be perfect. And if you are dealing with bull headed people it's 100 times harder. Ok so your mom and dad aren't budging. Fine don't talk to them about bio mom. If they bring her up or ask about her you can say "you didn't want her apart of your life I am respecting your wishes by not sharing and say nothing else. Want Bio mom at your wedding then you invite her. You don't have to tell your parents you don't need their permission. Bio mom knows the sistuation. Invite her and say I would like you there very much but you know the sitsutation and I can't change it. The choice is then hers. It is then THEIR (bio-mom and your parents) on how they want to handle it if they bump into each other. I would be a little safe by not sitting them at the same table LOL. FYI I sat my Grandma at the table across from my Real Dad's Dad and she never saw him the whole wedding. If your parents keep pushing asking about bio mom being there say I tried to work this out with you and you didn't want to be flexable and leave it at that. Again respecting your wishes by not discussing bio mom with you. You have voiced and shared your thoughts and been honest to all parties. Your a beautiful person and desever alot more understanding in regards from your parents but you can't always change a person/s way of thinking. If you want to quit that's your choice. I will stand behind you in what ever you choose. (PS I still like reading your blog) but don't give up a part of you or something you want to please everyone else. Do what you need for you. Screw everyone else.Cherylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10438530139736526043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9133890555036844375.post-66811691425417567012010-07-22T14:54:21.252-07:002010-07-22T14:54:21.252-07:00I truly feel like the failure isn't yours. Yo...I truly feel like the failure isn't yours. You're stuck in the middle of it, but it's not your fault. It's one of those things, it totally sucks, but there it is. May not make you feel any better about it, but I hope you're able to come to a peace about it and not feel at fault someday. Sometimes there just isn't a solution! I'm sorry friend!Yohannah McNeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02358663934144188399noreply@blogger.com